Have any recipie to lead a real pleasant congugal life? It’s a million dollar question. From time immemorial psychologist and philosopher have been trying to find a formula to solve the question. But ultimate result is superficious. Who is good husband? It is widely considered that a man should have a sacrificing mindset on his wife. Generally a woman seek comfort and honour from her husband. A man who shows tangible couteous gesture to a woman and like to marry her very more precious to a woman than any other things in the world.
So what is the criteria of a model husband? The opinion is differ from man to man over the vital question. Interestingly women don,t like manliest men who may dominate her or interrupt her liberty or try to establish supremacy upon her. Rather than husband will be soft minded , obedient and one who can do all the house hold chores willingly.
West is the perfect example of such a husband . Husband remains at home, ready the dinner, look after the kids and gets the house tidy while wife go for shopping or attending a party. Such husband is a dream and priceless possession to a woman. Husband point of view it is a tangible courteous gesture.
Couple years ago a newspaper in Poland organized a best contest named” Model of a best husband”. Interestingly gold medal went to the husbands who did in house hold chores, looked after the children and made small repairs at home. Among the best one of the contestants who got skill how to knit socks and gloves and he was, moreover, a colonel.
Every couple fell the pain of jealousy “the green eyed monster” at least for a moment in their life. Jealousy is responsible for a large number of divorce that happen every day. It is alarming that couple are more jealous today than they were in the past, ultimately lead to a path of divorce.
Todays women enjoy more freedom and free movement. They are forced to get out form the home because of monetary interest and they would like to earn like men and help their family. So it is very obvious the presence of women in the work place. It, s ultimately lead the men more jealous to women. Husband suspects his wife has good rapport with her boss where she works and wife is ready to find the slightest intimacy of her husband,s relation with the lady secretary or a suspicious late return from the office.
Jealousy sometimes become more dreadful. A U.S woman injured her husband genitals when she discovered a unfair intimacy of her husband with a woman. In yet another example of jealousy a man, in broad day light, drowned his wife in a river after finding her in a car with another man.
Wives often complain that husband always forget their marriage anniversary date or remain unnoticed when their wives get a new hair style or wear a new dress. Its only happen after couple of days when they suddenly say “Oh, when did you change your hairstyle?” Or “When did you buy this new dress?”